Just like the soul brother in the video, I doubt that (even) my husband would be able to get fully hard with all that cringe music blaring in the background. If it was a more sex positive world, my husband and I would have no qualms with making our own videos. That said, we'd have to risk being disowned, fired, unable to find work, lose custody of our k***, arrested, fined, jailed, imprisoned, shunned, and shamed. And those self-righteous judgements would not only follow us until the day we die, but our c****ren as well. Just because the majority is/isn't doing something doesn't automatically make one wrong for not doing/doing something. I digress.